The Dairy Women’s Unchosen Loves
Tess of the d'UrbervillesThis flow follows the four milkmaids’ shared affection for Angel and the different costs each woman bears when Tess becomes his choice.
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Bearing strength in each event
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A Quiet Object of Affection

A Quiet Object of Affection
The dairy’s social world
Angel’s presence attracts Retty Priddle, Marian, and Izz Huett, although he is largely absorbed in his own thoughts. The women share their feelings privately and understand that social rank makes marriage to him unlikely.
Tess becomes the favorite
The women notice that Angel pays particular attention to Tess. Their rivalry remains restrained because each recognizes the weakness of her own prospects and the depth of their affection.
The Flooded Lane

The Flooded Lane
A practical rescue
Angel carries each of the four women across a flooded lane so they can reach church. His simple kindness becomes emotionally charged for the milkmaids.
A visible preference
When Angel carries Tess, his attention and tenderness are unmistakable. The other women recognize that he prefers her, even as Tess herself hesitates to accept the implications.
Tess’s Attempt at Self-Denial

Tess’s Attempt at Self-Denial
Concern for the other women
Tess tries to redirect Angel’s attention toward Retty and Izz, whom she regards as worthy of happiness. She sees her own past as a reason she should not become his wife.
Love resists the plan
Her attempt to step aside does not change Angel’s preference, and the other women understand that the relationship is moving beyond their hopes. Tess’s generosity is sincere but cannot erase her own feelings.
The Absent Lover’s Proposal

The Absent Lover’s Proposal
A dangerous alternative
After Angel leaves Tess, Alec asks Izz to accompany him to Brazil. She agrees because she loves him, though she knows he is still devoted to Tess.
Loyalty interrupts escape
Izz admits that Tess loved Angel more than she did. Angel abandons the proposal and returns Izz to her road, recognizing the injustice of replacing his wife with a woman who loves him less.
The Warning Letter

The Warning Letter
Friends act from a distance
Marian and Izz learn that Alec is near Tess and fear that her isolation will leave her vulnerable. They write Angel a short warning, urging him to protect his wife.
A belated intervention
The letter helps prompt Angel to search for Tess, but he reaches Sandbourne only after Alec has again gained influence over her. The women’s solidarity matters, though it cannot reverse the earlier delay.
the first weeks of Tess’s stay at Talbothays Dairy
a Sunday morning during the summer at Talbothays
the morning after the flooded-lane crossing
New Year’s Eve, after Tess and Angel’s wedding
after Angel returns from Brazil and before he reaches Sandbourne